because it's all about you

after I unsubscribed from the playgroup site, I got an email from the organizer.

She apologized for missing the playdate, because she was at a family event and decided to let her kids stay and play. Then she proceeded to dump her whole sob story about how hard it is to organize something like this, and how so many people never show up, and how it's important to her that it's open to everyone, and how she's had to attend every event that she's scheduled.

So....still....in a 6 week period, there've been 4 evening/weekend events scheduled (two of those at my request), and something like 2 dozen weekday morning events. If I stayed, I'd want to pay pro-rated dues or something, because that's not at all fair.

And it's not my problem that the organizer can't be bothered to ask for help - because I've organized much bigger projects.

So, I sent a response - it's not personal, after all. It's really just a case of us not being a good fit for the group, and the group not being the right fit for us. I can't be bothered to stress over trying to make the group work for us, because I've got more important things to deal with.