Kadiera's Playground Cute but Evil - it averages out

Go read this because it says so much about the assumptions that go into the stupid questions that people ask.

Including questions like, "So, now that your son isn't in the hospital, aren't you going to take down all these pictures of when he was? Because, I mean, they're just so traumatic!"

No....I am not taking them down anytime soon....though I supposed I'm running out of wall space and need to condense a bit when I print new pics.

Because this *is* his life, just like the formal pics of said co-worker's 3-month-old on his desk. If I got rid of all these, it would not change the fact that this is what is, and what has been, and it would be avoiding and negating my child's entire first year.

This is what we - our whole family - survived, and I'm damn proud of all of us for that.